….there was a little girl who read stories of perfect worlds, with perfect people and perfect lives. She listened to tales of true love and happily ever afters. She watched movies where the characters would do anything to bring about the happy endings. She grew up.
Along the way she realized a few things. The princes had flaws. The princesses underestimated themselves and down played their powers and talents to attract those princes and make them feel needed. What guy can resist the damsel in distress? The women in the stories who did end up speaking up for what they wanted were often shunned & rejected. Those who lived up to their truest potentials and didn’t rely on anyone else even were sometimes called a witch. Even if all they really were casting were shadows.
She found a tale that resonated with her. One of a girl, who defied the standards of princesses. the girl even dared to wear pants instead of dresses. The girl made friends along the way as she fought to get to the castle to rescue her brother. Yes she fought. Yes she was the rescuer not the rescuee. She passed on the offers & temptations of the perfect life in the perfectly floating bubble with the magical prince. The girl made friends unlike herself along the way. She stayed true to herself & knew that power lied within. No one had power over her without her permission. She couldn’t control others’ actions, but she did control her reactions.
Empowered with a sense of a new breed of princess, she lived life on her own terms. She went through life making choices based on her own heart & her own goals instead of trying to fit into the molds laid out before her of what “should be”. She held on to her dreams.
But alas some days it felt that she was trapped in her own castle. Sometimes she even wished to be rescued by some handsome prince. She played with her animal friends & reminder herself how lucky she was to not be tied down to the standards. Lived in the moments & followed her bliss.
Still part of her longed to meet her match. The one person in the world who would see her for her true self & love her for it. The one being that would accept her and not try to change her. The one man who would stand beside her in a fight rather than try to hide her away & suppress her abilities. One who by connecting with, would be lifted up as much as she in their meeting.
So will there be a happily ever after?
the real question is will there be a prince? that is still to be determined.
One thing was for sure. The princess came from a long line of lucky ladies who managed to find the one true loves that were determined to be by their sides til the end come what may. This thought alone gave her the most hope in the darkest days. That & she was empowered with a beautiful gift. She had been taught along the way by these couples that no matter what happens she was worth waiting for. She was blessed beyond settling for anything less than perfect (& that she would be the one to see it as perfect, complete with all its flaws). Self love would get her everywhere.
…..& for that she was eternally grateful & knew she would eternally be loved.